I mentioned to Miss M that I had to get a birthday present for her friend Y, who is also turning four. “Are you going to get her a toy, Ema?”
(Knowing that Y’s mom is drowning in a four-year-long flood of toys for both Y and her sister–and a third baby soon–I ran gift ideas by her ahead of time.)
“No, I’m going to get a book for her.”*
“I would like a toy for my birthday.”
“Hmm, really. You know, you already have lots of toys, and you don’t seem to like playing with them all that much.”
“I think I would like a toy for a present.”
“Well, I’ve already bought your birthday presents.”
And it’s three books, all of which were hard for her to return to the library in the past.
It’s funny how the books around here are constantly spilling–and being spilled–off the shelves, but somehow there never seem to be too many.
* I did buy a book, which I immediately wrapped, because Miss M has encountered it in the past and really liked it and would covet it to no end.

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June 13, 2008 at 11:34 am
chyk
my mother used to always five electric toothbrushes as gifts for me to give. it was so embarassing. a book is much better
June 16, 2008 at 12:19 pm
caramama
There can never be enough books. Never!!
And books can be considered toys, can’t they?
June 17, 2008 at 9:46 am
LC
Books are *better* than toys!
If she brings it up again (and you would be happy enough with the results) you could use that as a starting point for the ’some people aren’t as fortunate’ talk – my kids have weeded through toys at least once as a group, and dd (now
has gone through the dolls – she’s the only girl, and I told her the overflowing dolly and dressup toy boxes needed to *close*, with everything inside before I’d let her request more. A full shopping bag worth got donated.
June 17, 2008 at 9:47 am
LC
um, that wasn’t a shades smiley, but the number 8, followed by close parenthesis . . . sorry for the confusion.